What kind of person do you want your child to become, and how can you guide him toward that? I want my son to become a person who live real his life. I mean that nobody cannot push his life as they wish, involved me. So I told him one thing. If you think it is not right, you can say 'No', even if it is parent's opinions. But, It also has side-effect. When he need to do as I want in a situation related on safe etc, he say this story calmly.

Hello, Stella! It's important to encourage your son to follow his own path and stay true to himself. ^^ I hope he grows up to be just as you wish him to be.