What are your thoughts on the Korean tradition in which the wives of the first sons have to take charge of preparations for family rituals, such as ancestral worship on Chuseok? it's unfailr women have to prepare alone. Honestly, I think it's unfair. There's so much to do on the holidays.That's why women get sensitive coming on holidays. When the holidays come, Korean women should go grocery shopping at the mart and make food two days ago. plus we set up a table and hold a memorial service. When men eat after the ritual, they clean the table and wash the dishes. That's why women travel abroad instead of holding ancestral rites these days. i want men have to help us a little .